ANAL INTERCOURSE INTRODUCTION: What we are discussing here is a guy putting his penis in another persons rectal opening for the purpose of having sex. (Generally, I won't be using these polite terms.) This rant will be strictly about males having anal intercourse with other males. However, the activity can also involve females using similar techniques. There are always two people involved in anal sex. The 'giver' is always male and he is the one who will be inserting his dick into the 'receivers' asshole. If the receiver has never been fucked before, his asshole is going to be pretty tight. His first fucking can be pretty painful if the two of them don't do some things to get the receiver loosened up. The giver can also find it to be difficult to get his dick into his partners asshole because it is so tight. So, it benefits both of them to take some time to get the receiver properly loosened up. The receiver should have pooped shortly before the fucking starts. Otherwise, the giver is going to pull his dick out of the receiver's ass and it will be all covered with shit. It will also limit the length of the thrust that the giver can make since he will be blocked by the shit. And, as the shit is pushed up into the receiver further, it will cause the receiver to experience some discomfort or pain because the shit is being pushed back up into the intestines that it just came down from. Giving the receiver an enema (or douche) with hot water will get him all cleaned out, and it will also relax, and stretch all of the muscles associated with his asshole. If the giver gives the receiver the enema, then the giver can spend some time using his fingers to get his partner's asshole muscles loosened up, stretched and relaxed. Use lots of lube in doing this. As you stretch out his asshole pause after each new enlargement and let the muscles relax and get used to this new expansion. If the receiver gives himself the enema (or douche) he's probably not going to be able to get his asshole stretched out as much as the giver can. Before the fucking starts, the giver should take some time to throughly lubricate the receiver's asshole, both inside and out. Use a water-based lubricant like KY. If you use something like Vaseline, it will quickly rot the condom, and petroleum based lubricants are difficult to clean up after the fucking is done. Squirt some KY from the tube directly on his asshole region. To avoid contamination NEVER scoop the lubricant from a can or jar. Water-based lubricants (like KY) take bigger quantities than other lubricants to get the same 'slipperiness'. Start working the KY into his anal ring, as well as working a finger up inside of the hole. If he seems tense as you put your finger in, then let it rest inside of his hole for a moment until he gets used to it. Work your finger around a bit and then withdraw it. Squeeze some more KY on your first 2 fingers and then put both of them in his hole. Let his muscles get used to this intruder and then move them around a bit and let his hole get relaxed some. Once it is relaxed, then withdraw your hand and repeat the process with 3 fingers. Whether you repeat this with 4 fingers, or not will depend on the size of your dick and the size of your fingers. I recommend stretching his asshole muscles out to 4 fingers before you try inserting your dick. Do not force your fingers into his ass. Let his asshole get used to this intrusion by stretching and relaxing. It is more exciting for both people if the receiver helps the giver to put on the condom. The receiver can also help to lubricate the giver's dick. After all, that is going to be going in his asshole and how much it will hurt him will depend on the amount of lubrication that is used here. If these two people have never fucked each other before it is better to do it on a firm surface, like the floor or the ground. A bed tends to move around too much which makes it difficult for the partners to get co-ordinated enough so that the giver can get his dick into the receiver's asshole. Once the two of them have experienced each other, they can probably do it in bed just fine. But, for the first time together, I recommend a blanket on a hard surface. I realize that the giver is horny and he is eager to satisfy his sexual urges, but it's going to be a lot more fun for both partners if he will take his time and insure that his partner is getting just as much pleasure as he is. Don't rush through this! Two people having sex is supposed to be an act of love! As with any sex act between two people COMMUNICATE! Tell the other person what's hurting, tell him what feels good, tell him if he needs to change position. Sex between two guys is supposed to be for pleasure for both of them. Having sex with another person is supposed to be an act of pleasure. DICK SIZE: This is kind of important, but it's not as important as people think. As a receiver, consider the size of some of the loads that you have dumped into the toilet when you have pooped. The rectal muscles are very resilient and they can stretch out to a very big size. If the giver has a very thick dick then he should spend quite a bit of time lubricating and stretching the receiver's asshole so that he can get his dick in. Once the fucking is over the receiver's asshole will return to it's normal size - unless the giver has not been as tender as he should of been and he has torn some of the muscles. If the giver's dick is skinny, the muscles around the asshole will accommodate it by just not opening up as big. Only if the giver's dick is short will there be a problem. A long dick has no problem. If the receiver is in puberty, or hasn't yet started puberty, the giver's dick size is going to be very important. The dick size of both boys should be nearly equal in diameter. Pretty much, if both parties haven't completed puberty it is dangerous for either one to try anal sex. The bodies just haven't developed enough to have the resiliency and the control that is necessary for it. BLEEDING: At no time during anal sex should the giver be bleeding from any part of his body, especially from his dick - with or without a condom. The receiver should refuse and the giver should get to an emergency room. The walls of the ass are very tender and it is very easy for the giver to thrust too hard and to tear the wall. The receiver may see blood in his poop the next time that he poops. These tears will usually heal quite quickly. If you see blood in a second pooping, you should see a doctor. If the giver is not careful when he is inserting his dick into the receivers asshole he can tear that muscle. It is generally very painful for the receiver when this happens. This happens more frequently when the giver has used a numbing agent, like Oragel, to numb the muscle to reduce pain. The receiver will see blood both in the toilet, as well as on the toilet paper and in his underwear when this happens. This usually requires stitches to correct. POSITIONS: DOGGY STYLE: The receiver gets on his hands and knees, usually with his face and shoulders down on the floor (or bed). This will position his asshole right up in the air and usually it will make it easy for the giver to locate it. The giver should take some time to get the receiver's asshole lubricated and stretched. If the giver feels some shit up in the receivers ass while he is lubricating it, this is an ideal position for him to flush it out. He can use an enema bag, or a squeeze syringe for douches, or even use a pre-packaged enema solution. With the receiver still in the doggy position, insert the tip of the enema nozzle into his asshole and empty it. Have a pail or cooking pot to put under his ass for the shit to come out in. The receiver only needs to raise up to a vertical position and let it all out in the pail or pot. When he's finished, he just bends back over again. The giver will probably want to wipe up around his asshole and lubricate it again. Gently find his asshole with the tip of your dick and gently nudge his asshole open. Once you have it opened a little, pause and let his hole stretch to accommodate you. Then, gently move forward so that he is handling the full length of your dick. Pause for a bit after you are all of the way in. The giver can remain in a vertical position and start moving his hips (and dick) back and forth. Or, he can bend over and lay on the back of the receiver. This will position him so that he can play with the receiver's nipples, lick his ears and play with other erogenous areas to give the receiver some additional erotic pleasure. The two of them may be able to also kiss each other while they are fucking in this position. Once the giver is inside of the receiver all of the way, the receiver can straighten out his legs so that he is laying on the floor on his belly. This can usually be co-ordinated so that the giver goes down with him and his dick stays inside of the receivers asshole. Once they are both on the floor, the fucking is similar to doing push-ups. Or, the giver can lay on the receiver's back and just move his hips. The thrusts are not as deep this way. SQUAT POSITION: In this position, the giver is laying on his back with his stiff dick sticking straight up. It is generally up to the receiver to get the condom put on the giver's dick and to get it lubed. But, the giver can easily help the receiver to accomplish this. The receiver then straddles the giver in a kneeling position by putting a knee on each side of the givers hips and squats over his dick and then gets it put inside of his asshole. This gives the receiver complete control of how quickly the dick gets fully inserted into his asshole, and how much it hurts - if any. The receiver then starts moving up and down, impaled on the giver's dick, and makes the giver cum. The receiver has complete control in this position. The receiver will usually have his hands free and he can play with the giver's nipples, his chest and his ears. He can usually bend over and the two of them can kiss each other. Because the giver's hands are also free he can also massage his partners nipples, chest, ears, etc. He can also stroke his partners dick and make the receiver cum in co-ordination with when the giver cums. In this position the receiver is more apt to feel the giver's dick hitting on his prostate gland. And, he has control of this by the way that he positions himself and moves around while he is impaled on his partner's dick. This position is good for mutual climaxes. The receiver can also turn around and face the giver's feet. This puts him in a position to play with the giver's asshole and prostate, as well as to massage his balls and heighten the giver's sexual experience. This position is also good if the receiver has a big butt and his asshole is hard to get to. It's also good for when the giver has a short dick. The buttocks are spread out and his asshole is easier to reach and to get into. MISSIONARY POSITION: In this position the receiver lays on his back on the floor (or bed) and raises his legs up over his head. It helps if he puts a pillow under his hips so that his asshole is more exposed for the giver to get his dick into. The giver will frequently hold the receiver's legs up over his head. This not only gives the giver something to hang onto, but if the receiver has to hold his legs up all by himself he will tire easily. The giver may find it to be comfortable to lay over the receiver, using the receiver's upraised legs as props. While the giver can conceptually play with the receiver's dick while he is fucking him, this does not usually happen. Both the receiver and the giver are able to play with each others erogenous zones when they are fucking in this position. Usually the giver has a harder time controlling his thrusts and he is more apt to do damage to the walls of the receivers ass. SPOON POSITION: This is probably one of the hardest positions to try to have anal sex in unless the two guys have had previous experiences with each other. The two guys lay cuddled up like two spoons in a drawer. The giver's chest is in full contact with the receiver's back. The receiver brings his knees up to his chest so that his shape is very close to what it would be in the doggy position, except that he is on his side. The giver locates the receiver's asshole and lubes it up. Once he gets his dick fully inserted into the receiver he can reach around and hug and caress the receiver. The receiver can not reciprocate. The giver moves his hips, and dick, back and forth until he can cum. But, because of the friction of his hips against the blanket it takes more work to do the thrusting and the thrusts are not as efficient. However, this is an easy position for the giver to reach over and play with the receiver's dick and to make him cum. FIRST TIME: Receiver: If this is your first time at getting fucked, the most important thing is to not be nervous and tense. I know that you are eager to have a guys dick up inside your ass, patience is important. Make sure that he is using a condom. Once he has his dick in there, any fluid that comes out of him (including piss and pre-cum) will quickly enter your bloodstream through the thin walls of your rectum and you can get infected with whatever he might have - possibly even the flu or a cold. If you help him put the condom on then you can be sure that he is wearing one, and his dick will be even harder. Make sure that he has lubed your asshole really well. He is in a position to do it better than you can, and it will make all of the difference in the world. Make sure that his dick is well lubed. And, you can see to this. As the head of his dick nudges your anal ring, relax. He should be slowly applying pressure with his dick against your asshole. Patience is important here. If he pushes too hard, too fast, you will be in severe pain. With him just applying gentle pressure against your asshole, it will give way and let it in. Once he starts getting his dick in you, you will probably feel a lot of hurt. Endure the pain for a few moments and both of you should hold very still. It shouldn't take long before your anal ring becomes accepting of this intrusion and the pain subsides. After the pain has subsided and he has started his thrusting you are probably going to feel his dick hitting your prostate. I can quite often make guys cum just by a good prostate massage. You may feel like you are going to piss while he is fucking you. I am 99% sure that you aren't going to piss, so don't worry about it. Just relax. You may also have the feeling that you have to poop while his dick is inside of you. Don't worry about it - especially if you have had an enema before you started this. While he is fucking you, he has almost become a part of you. A part of him is inside of you and you become as one. Enjoy it. Your asshole is probably going to be sore for a few days afterwards. This is normal and it serves as a reminder of much fun that you had doing this. Giver: I know that you are eager to do this and to fuck him. But, patience and relaxation are important - both to him and to you. Help him to get cleaned out inside so that your fun is not blocked by his poop. Make sure that both his asshole and your dick are well-lubed. If this is his first time it can be very painful to him if you are not patient. Make the insertion very slow and gentle. Once you are all of the way inside of him, pause and let his muscles relax and get used to you. Once you are inside of him and he has gotten used to you, you can establish a rhythm with your thrusting. Once you have cum and you have pulled out, be considerate. You have just cum and probably you have lost all interest. But, he probably hasn't cum and he is now extremely horny. Depending on your position while you are fucking him, you may have been able to help him get off while you were fucking him. Otherwise, at least jerk him off when you are done fucking. Once both of you are finished it is important to get cleaned up. A shower together is good. Another douche for the receiver can be valuable, especially if the condom leaked (and, they do). DEFINITIONS: Asshole; Rectum; Anus; Anal; Butthole; The hole in the bottom and back of the torso that the solid waste of the body comes out of. Feces; Poop; Shit; Crap; The waste that the body eliminates when it is done digesting food. Performance Anxiety: The giver will get so excited about the upcoming fucking that his dick goes soft and he can't get it in his partners asshole. In some cases, the receiver can suck on it and play with it and explore his erogenous zones and get it hard enough again to get it inside. In some cases, the giver gets so excited that he cums before he can even get his dick in his partner. This is a real disappointment for both guys, and usually they will have to try again on another day.