• CLIMAX:
  A sexual climax is the stage of the sexual activity when the penis becomes the hardest. The penis will throb or pulse. The body will usually stiffen, and quite often pulse. Once the climax has been reached, and passed, usually all interest in sex is gone, and the erection disappears. Frequently, there is a need to pee, frequently there is a hunger sensation.
• EJACULATION:
  This is the ejection of semen that has been created in the testicles out through the urethra and into the vagina during heterosexual intercourse.
• ORGASM:
  This is the combination of a climax and an ejaculation and is the culmination of the sex act.
• NOTE: It is possible to have a climax without an ejaculation. It is possible to have an ejaculation without a climax. Nor, is an erection necessary for either one.
  
• MASTURBATION:(jerking off)
  • It is the manipulation of an erogenous area (usually the head of the penis) for the purpose of reaching a climax or orgasm.
  • Studies have shown that 95% of all men have masturbated at one time, or another. If they are no longer masturbating, it is usually because they now have a sex partner.
  • Masturbating is not harmful. It is normal. Only if you do it so much that you develop sores on your penis is it considered harmful.
  • This is considered to be the best form of 'safe sex' in existence. You can not get diseases or pregnant from masturbation.
  • Techniques for masturbating vary from person to person and quite often involve more than one erogenous area.
    • Find a quiet, private, place and get completely nude.
    • Initially, use your fingers to completely explore your body. Be sure to also explore inside your ears, your nose, your mouth and your rectum.
    • Start with a light, gentle, touch and progressively apply pressure.
    • Pay attention to the various areas that seem to be sexually exciting to you. You may also find that a certain amount of pain is stimulating.
    • As you play with your 'hot spots', it also helps to focus your mind on images and thoughts that are sexually exciting.
  
  
• INTERCOURSE:(screwing, fucking)
  • VAGINAL INTERCOURSE:
    This is the insertion of your penis into her vagina and thrusting back and forth, normally with the end result of an orgasm.
    HAZARDS:
    • PREGNANCY: Once a month a female becomes fertile - her egg(s) come down into her vagina to be fertilized by your semen. While she only has 1 or 2 eggs, you have thousands of fertilizers in each ejaculation that you inject into her vagina. It only takes ONE of those thousands of fertilizers to make her pregnant.
      If you do get her pregnant, then you will be required by law to support the kid until it is 'of age' (18 at least). There goes your nice car, there goes your nice stereo. There goes your great clothes. You will work your butt off and all of the money will go to support the kid. The only diapers that you will be changing will be the kids diapers!
    • AIDS: AIDS is forever! If she is a carrier, you are quite likely to sign your death warrant.
    • STD's: There are a great number of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (herpes, gonohrea, syphlis, etc) that you can contract from her.
  • ANAL INTERCOURSE:
    This is the insertion of your penis into the rectum (where the poop comes out) of either a guy or a girl.
    PROS AND CONS:
    • PREGNANCY: Not a chance of it.
    • AIDS: This is most frequent way that AIDS is transmitted.
    • Liquids/fluids inserted into the rectum are usually absorbed by the body very quickly, much quicker than by mouth.
    • The walls of the rectum are very fragile, and the penis thrusting around in there and easily perforate the wall.
  • ORAL INTERCOURSE:
    This is the insertion of your penis into the mouth of your sex partner (Or vice-versa)
    • The receiver of the penis experiences the greatest risk when an ejaculation happens and the owner of the penis is not healthy and his infection goes into the receivers mouth.
  • WARNING Any time that any fluid from one person enters the body of another person, no matter what the orifice is, the risk is great that infections will be passed.
  RECOMMENDATIONS:
  1. THE BEST: The BEST is to refrain from ALL sexual activities. Let nature take it's course.
  2. REALISTICALLY: Go into your room, or other private place, and masturbate until you climax. Clean up the mess and go on about your business.
  3. RISKY: Use a condom when you are putting any of your body fluids into another person, or someone is putting their body fluids into any of the openings in your body.
     Because of the way that condoms are made, they can leak and allow even just one LITTLE drop of their fluid into your body.
     The condom can also break, in which case the high risk is incalcuable - either for pregnancy or disease.
  4. SAFER: Have them pull their penis out of your orifice before they ejaculate. Let the semen go on your body, on the bed, on the floor - any place except inside of you.
  5. VERY SAFE: Buy an inflatable life size doll with orifices and have sex with that.
  
  
• BLOOD: Blood is not meant to leave your body. You may see it in your poop, you may see it in your urine, you may see it in your spit. This is not normal, and you need to seek medical help immediately!

In humans, a little boy that generally acts and behaves just like every other little boy on the planet goes into a metamorphosis called puberty. But, they are required to do their changing out in front of God and everybody and everyone can see all of their screw-ups.
Typically, puberty lasts around 8 years, for some it's more, for some it's less.

Some of the things that happen during this period:

• He starts growing a beard.
• Hair starts growing around his penis, followed by hair under his arms, and later on his chest, arms, and legs.
  This sequence varies and some guys remain hairless on various parts of their bodies. This tends to cause anxiety when they compare themselves to their peers.
• His penis starts growing out to it's pre-destined length.
• His height starts growing out to it's pre-destined height.
• His voice starts deepening.
• His sex drive starts showing itself.

It seems like no two people experience these things at the same times. Some will have the sex drive mature before the penis grows. Or the penis will grow out to it's final length before the sex drive kicks in.
These differentials cause a great deal of anxiety and worry amongst teens.
A teen wrote to me the other day. He had been trying to masturbate for quite a while. His penis had grown out to it's full length, but he was unable to either climax or ejaculate. While it felt really good, and he was having fun, he was quite worried. As he came to understand the various terms and definitions he was finally able to climax.

DEPRESSION:
It is quite normal for you to experience a depression once you have had an orgasm. The basis of the depression will depend on what you focussed on during the masturbation or intercourse. Since different people focus on different things to induce their climax, the cause of the depression will vary. The depression should be gone within an hour, or so.

Your best source to learn about the various parts and functions of your body is a doctor that you can trust. S/he has heard it all and is very familiar with what you are going through.

SAFE SEX: Before AIDS came along in the early 80's we had numerous Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's) that we worried about. But they could usually be cleared up with a couple of shots of penicyllin. We knew that herpes was forever, but it rarely killed. There were a dozen, or so, different varieties of STD's. They would cause some discomfort, but not death (usually).(Although Al Capone is rumored to have died from the results of untreated syphlis.)

AIDS is not forgiving. If you make just one little mistake and take a chance with the wrong person - just ONCE and your life is totally changed! He (or she) can look as pure as the driven snow, and inside that beautiful body they can be rife with disease! Don't take chances!

• PENETRATION:
  If some part of their body is going to be inserted into some part of your body, use a condom!
  • If your penis is going to go in their mouth, use a condom
  • If your penis is going to go in their vagina, use a condom
  • If your penis is going in their rectum, use a condom
  • If their penis is going into your mouth, use a condom
  • If their penis is going into your rectum, use a condom
  • If your mouth is going to go on or in their vagina, use a dental dam
  WARNING: Condoms can break or leak.
  AFTER SEX:
  • Use a strong mouthwash, like Listerine, to wash out your mouths. Be sure to gargle.
  • Use a soapy solution to douche out her vagina if you had vaginal sex.
  • Use a soapy solution to douche out any rectum that has been involved in any intercourse.
  • Take a hot, soapy shower as soon as possible after the sex is over.
  • (The AIDS virus, as well as several other STD's can not stand soap and hot water. So showering with your partner before getting into the fun is also some added protection. (Some sources dispute this advice. Others agree.)
    Try having your sex with your partner in the shower. It drastically reduces the risk of AIDS and STD's and you will probably find that it is incredibly exciting!)
  These are all things that you can do together in a co-operative effort. With luck, it could provide a 'dividend' (another round of fun).
• DILDOES:
  Make sure that any dildoes, or other similar devices, have been thoroughly cleaned - such as boiling for 5-10 minutes, dunking in Clorox, etc, before you allow them to be put inside any of the orifices of your body.

It is also very safe (not completely safe) for you to masturbate someone else, or for someone to masturbate you. Wash your hands in hot soapy water when you are finished. Wearing latex gloves also provides good protection.

ASSUME THAT EVERY PERSON that comes in physical contact with you has AIDS, or some other STD. Don't be rude, but be sure to take the appropriate safeguards.