RECENT QUESTIONS

Here are some of the recent questions that I have received, along with the answers that I have given the asker.

QUESTION 1:
>>request_subject: PENIS
>>comments: hi big daddy,

Hi!

>>1.is it necessary to pull the foreskin of the penis back only before sex
>>or is it supposed to be that way always???

Normally, the foreskin will keep the head of the penis covered. When the penis becomes erect, as in getting ready for sex, the foreskin will naturally withdraw and expose the head.

When you are going to insert your penis into a vagina or a rectum, the foreskin should be completely withdrawn. I've played with some that the foreskin was quite long and had to have help in getting completely withdrawn. If you don't get it completely withdrawn, you run the risk of tearing it while you are thrusting. Once it is torn circumcision is mandatory. I think it would be a sin to remove that beautiful piece of meat!

If you are going to insert it into your partners mouth, you may want to keep the head covered as much as possible in order to prolong the pleasure. (I love to stick my tongue between the foreskin and the head of a soft dick run my toungue around in there! Of course, the dick doesn't stay soft very long.)

>>2.my penis size is around 5.5in.will the size increase as it grows older
>>or is this the max???

5.5 inches is reported as the average size for a dick, and from all of the ones that I have seen, I believe that to be right.

I've played with dicks as short as 2.5 inches, as well as as long as 11.5 inches. Personally, to me, my theory is that as long as you can get piss to come out of it and you can jerk off and make cum come out of it, it's just fine.

At 20 years old, whether it will get bigger, or not, is debatable. This is going to depend on what stage of puberty that you are in. How old were you when you started growing hair around your dick? If you were 10 years old, then your dick size maxed out long ago - say 12 or 13. If you were 19 years old when the hair started growing then your dick will probably grow some more.

In all probability, you dick is as long as it will get.

>>3.is there any excersise to increase the penis size naturally,witout the
>>ussage of pills and other stuff???

I doubt that the pills and stuff will work anyways and they are just a waste of money.

I heard reports of a guy that tied a string, or something, around the head of his dick and tied the other end around his leg below his knee. This kept his dick stretched and supposedly it got longer. It sounds painful to me.

Logic tells me that if you use your hand to jerk-off with that frequent jerking off will stretch it and make it bigger. After all if you lift weights a lot your arm muscles get bigger. In this case, you are exercising another 'muscle' and it should get bigger.

One of the guys that I photographed was jerking off 7-10 times a day. I don't remember the dimensions of his dick, but it was good size. (He's not on the web page because I didn't get a model release. You would have to come here to see his pictures.)

Frankly, in my opinion, the size of your dick doesn't matter. If you are heterosexual, the size doesn't matter to her. The vagina will expand or contract naturally to fit whatever is being put in there. If she wants something bigger (which I am told that women usually don't) then use a big dildo or baseball bat or broom handle, etc.

At 5.5 inches you should be able to have most any kind of sexual activity that you wish and can find a willing partner for.

I hope that this helps. Write back if you have more questions.

Big Daddy


QUESTION 2:

>>1.before i put on a condom,should i pull the foreskin wen my penis is in >>an erect state or wen it isnt?

It is generally rather difficult to put a condom on when you are soft. They are designed to be put on when you are hard. As far as the foreskin: whatever is comfortable for you.

>>2.i'd lik 2 've oral sex wit my gf.she 2 is intrested...i'd like 2 know >>how i can give her an orgasm????

When you are having sexual activities with another person, it is important that both of you communicate with each other. They should let you know when you are doing something that feels good, something that hurts a little, maybe your tongue should be out a little. That sort of thing.

Every person seems to have a different set of places on their body that is a sexual turn-on to them. (That's both male and female.) You can have a lot of fun exploring the other persons body and finding all of their 'hot spots'.

>>3.should v use condoms wile 'ving oral sex???

Anytime that another persons fluid is going to enter your body, in any way, you should insist that they wear a condom. More in the next question.

>>4.is anal sex safe?wat r the precautions tat i should take??

First of all, any activity that brings a fluid


Blood
Pee
Poop
Semen
Saliva
etc.

from another person's body into your body through any opening in your body


Mouth
Nose
Eyes
Rectum
Urethra
Skin Pores

is hazardous to your health and can cause you to contract a wide variety of Venereal Diseases as well as AIDS.

The VERY best precaution is to never do anything sexual and rely on 'Nocturnal Emissions' or 'Wet Dreams'

The second best is to find a quiet place and jerk off (masturbate) by yourself.

Reasonably safe is for you and your partner to find each other's hot spots and get excited, and to each masturbate your selves, being sure to wash your hands with hot, soapy water after that.

Everything else is dangerous.

Condoms break. Condoms leak.

ANAL SEX:
Beyond what I mentioned above, there are a couple of other considerations.

The walls of the rectal area are very tender. They were not made for the thrusting that goes on with Anal Intercourse. It's easy to tear them.

The walls of the rectal area will quickly absorb anything that is put in there. Use wine for an enema solution and you will quickly get drunk. If you are throwing up a lot the doctors will give you medicine through your rectum. So, any illmess that gets introduced into your rectum by any fluid from another person (a cold, flu, etc) will get right into your blood stream right away.

Big Daddy


QUESTION 3: >>1.wen u say jerkin off, u mean mastru batin right!!!i'd like to >>know if u meant mastrubating wit ur hand???

Yes, that's right.

>>2.how often should i clean my penis pullin the foreskin back?

That should be a part of the regular routine when you clean your body - a bath or shower. For me that's a daily routine.

>>3.i'd also like 2 know whether 'ving sex wit my gf will hurt her >>in any way...they say it girls a lot,but that the pain gives way >>to pleasure!!is this true???will 'ving sex hurt me in any way???

If she is a virgin, it is likely that it will hurt her when you push your penis through her hymen. She can go to a doctor and have him remove it before you have sex with her if she wants to avoid the pain. If you break through it, it normally only hurts her for a few minutes.

Otherwise, if either of you finds that it hurts to have sex, then you are doing something wrong and you need to try changing things a little.

Big Daddy


QUESTION 4:

>>I want to ask a few questions >>Firstly is more detail about how to become incontient you can give me?

The first step is to read http://www.Im-Big-Daddy.com/rantings.bc.html Read that through, and if you still have questions, then write back and ask me specific questions about it.

Any other possible ways of doing it require surgery for which you will never find a surgeon to agree to, and the changes are permanent.

>>Secondly, How should i wear my diapers (maybe 24/7) without my parents >>knowing?

This depends on a lot of things about your home lifestyle that I don't know about.


It requires you to have a source of income to keep yourself in diapers.
It requires you to be able to get the diapers in the house without them knowing.
It requires you to be able to get the dirty diapers out of the house without them seeing or SMELLING them.
It requires you to have a secure, convenient hiding place where they won't find them.

All of this means that your parents never go in your room for any reason. And, since it's their house, they have the right to go in whenever they wish. And, I can think of hundreds of things that might happen that might cause them to look through their 15-year-old's stuff.

I am assuming that the reason that you are wearing diapers is because you are experiencing some bladder control problems, perhaps bedwetting once in a while, maybe not getting to the toilet fast enough during the day - that sort of thing - and your pants are getting a little wet once in a while.

This is all a part of puberty, a part of growing up. Your various internal parts aren't all growing at the same speed and these problems are a result of things not fitting right during the growth process.

This is something that you need to tell your parents about. They don't want you waking up in a wet bed any more than you do. They may take you to a doctor and this is a good thing if they do. Many, many things can go wrong during puberty, so frequent check-ups are important.

Probably the doctor will find nothing wrong, and will find no reason for bedwetting. He will probably recommend that you wear diapers as a way to cope with a problem that has no other cause than puberty. If he doesn't recommend them, it may be because he thinks that you would be too embarassed to wear them. So, there is nothing wrong with you suggesting them.

So, the advantage here is that your folks know all about your diapers and you don't have to hide them. Your folks will buy them for you, which saves your money. You can wear them openly without the paranoia that you are experiencing with them now.

Let me know how it goes.

Big Daddy


QUESTION 5:

> comments: i was what was the best way to tell someone my fetish

A true friend is not going to care what your fetishes are. They may not want to share some your fetishes, just as you may not want to share some of theirs, but they will still be your friend.

So, with that in mind, if you lose a friend just because they don't like one of your fetishes, then they weren't much of a friend in the first place, and in my opinion you haven't lost much.

Usually, just be casual about it. It will usually go smoother if you are not making a big thing out of it. Maybe you are telling your friend about a shopping trip and you mention that you picked up a supply of diapers while you were at [blank] store. Or, that you were in Target and found the cutest footed sleeper. Your friend will probably shift the focus of the conversation and ask you some questions. Answer their questions openly, honestly and casually. Sort of like if you were talking about the merits of peanut butter. If you make a big thing out of it so will they and it will probably go badly.

Good luck!


QUESTION 6:

kb>>I was also wondering, does a relativley safe SHORT term Laxative exist? I was thinking maybe one weekend or something, I might give it a shot :) Will be placing another order soon (Just ran through the last one, sitting here all smelly and poo stained =D )

Judging by the commercials on TV, there seems to be a lot of fascination by the public with their bowels, laxatives, etc. The main selling point of the ones that I have seen is that they are 'predictable'. Indeed, for most of them I can predict that they won't work!

What you are looking for is a 'purgative' - one that will purge your system from the top down. 3 such purgatives are Castor Oil, Mineral Oil and Epsom Salts. A Chinese restaurant buffet near me serves sauteed mushrooms that are excellent as a purgative.

Because everybody's body is different and reacts differently to things that are put inside of it, your reaction to these things may be different.

Epsom salts (and the others) are available in any drug store. Epsom salts are great for soaking sore wrists, ankles, elbows, etc in. On the box it tells you about a purgative dose. They will usually tell you 2 tablespoons in a glass of water. You may find that if 2 is good then 3 is better. All three of those taste pretty ugly. You will want to chug-a-lug them.

Typically, these are going to produce one helluva poop in about 2 hours. You should feel some growling in your guts at about 1 hour. I recommend getting diapered shortly after you take it. Probably your normal diaper is not going to hold it all.

Typically, they are a one-shot deal. There will be one blast and when that blast is done, that's it. Sometimes, after you have finished, you might find that when you eat for a time or two that you will need to poop shortly after you finish eating. It's controllable. But, you can't control that blast! Stick to the prescribed dosage and you should be all right.

The box tells you to do it on an empty stomach - so that the salts can get to your intestines better. If you are going to do it on a full stomach, you will need a much larger dose. If you take it on an empty stomach and then eat afterwards, what you eat will generally stay in.

All of these are considered safe for the normal adult body. Each adult body is a little bit different. The first time that you try it, I recommend that you choose a time and place when you can set aside many hours for it and a place that is easy to clean up messes if something goes wrong.

Some foods may react on you like the sauteed mushrooms do on many people. Those usually are all done within an hour and are more controllable.

On the other hand, a good enema is much more predictable and it is all over in a much shorter time.


QUESTION 7:

>> What do I do if I am having anal sex and the condom comes off and stays inside?

The condom should easily come out just by pushing as if you are trying to poop. The concern, however, is about the condom spilling the semen and possibly infecting the person that the condom is in.
I am assuming that the condom is inside of you.
The worst case here is that he has already cum and that that is all inside the condom that is inside of your butt. Try to reach in your butt with your finger, or tweezers, and pull the condom out without spilling any of the semen.
Give yourself a soapy enema. This also applies if his cum gets dumped out of the condom before you can get the condom out. Hopefully, the soapy enema will kill off any diseases that he may have deposited in your butt.


QUESTION 8:

"I'm 9 years old and I've finished puberty. Is something wrong?"

At 9 years old most kids haven't even started puberty. I strongly doubt that you have finished it.
My best advice is to see a doctor immediately and talk it over with him/her. I'm 99% sure that you are experiencing something else besides completing puberty!


QUESTION 9:

If you pee almost all the time does that mean that you are incontinent?

ANSWER: If you pee almost all of the time, you are probably drinking too many fluids. The recommended dosage of water is eight glasses a day - in a 24 hour period. Those are eight ounce glasses.
In a normal body those 8 glasses will be expelled out of the body - via peeing, via sweating, and mixed in with the poop.

My definition of incontinence is at Incontinence


QUESTION:

Do you know of any place where I can get adult baby clothes? Thank you.

ANSWER: Search on eBay for them. You may be able to locate someone locally that will make custom clothing for you. Search for 'seamstress', or 'dressmaker'


QUESTION: On Christmas Day my boyfriend and I went to the movies. We usually watch DVDs but we wanted to do something different. While we were watching it, I had to go and piss. We couldn't pause it and I didn't want to miss anything. There was nobody near us. He got my dick out and told me to piss and he put my dick in his mouth. I turned on the 'valve' and he drank it all and then put my dick back in my pants. A half hour later he got his dick out and told me that he needed to piss. I returned the favor and drank it all.
Is this dangerous?

ANSWER: Only if you get caught.
When you are in a monogamous relationship and you have confirmed at the beginning of the relationship that you are healthy, then however the both of you choose to share your love and your lives is healthy.
Piss from a normal, healthy, human is sterile and safe. It is a great way of sharing each other. You can share hangovers, colds, beer, pot, the flu and anything else that flows through your systems.
I always wear a diaper to the movies so that I don't have to miss anything on the screen.


QUESTION: Usually after I finish beating off I will feel like I have to whiz, but when I try to piss it won't come out. Am I breaking some thing when I beat off?

ANSWER: Probably not. There's a kind of traffic control in your lower belly. Normally the control is set to let piss come out of your penis. But, as soon as you start getting sexually excited the muscles change the source of the flow so that semen comes out of your penis. Otherwise, when you have your penis inside of a guys butt or inside of a girls vagina you would be filling them up with piss instead of semen.

You can try to relax amd hope that the flow will start, or you can put on a diaper and not give it another thought and let the piss flow when your body and mind get ready to let it go.


QUESTION: I was wondering which of your baby print diapers sells the most? If I don't pee very often or I pee often could that mean that I am incontinent. Please respond as soon as possible. Thank you.

ANSWER: The Deluxe Baby Prints are the most popular. They are sort of like pull-ups but they are refastenable and like regular diapers. The soft inner lining will keep your dick in a more excited state. They are quite absorbent. The baby prints on the outside give you that great inner feeling of being a little boy.

Being 'incontinent' means that you can't control your piss, or have very limited control. As your bladder fills up the piss will come out and you are unable to stop the flow. It has nothing to do with how often you piss.
It also means that you have no control over the flow of poop.


QUESTION: Many of the guys bodys that I have explored have a crease down the middle of their ball sack. Why?

ANSWER: When the embryo is formed while it is still in the uterus, the final body is in two parts, down the middle. As the embryo grows during that 9 months the two halves come together and the final body is assembled. For many guys when the two parts grow together, there is no trace of this former opening.
If you look closely at the guy, you will see traces of this seam up the middle of his penis, and also under him and up to his rectum. If his 'seam' is apparent to you (not all guys have this seam.) he's probably got a 'treasure trail' - a streak of hair that runs from his belly button down to his penis.


QUESTION: I have been a bed wetter all of my life. There was a time when I was 10 that I experienced dry nights. But once puberty set in about 13 I started wetting the bed again. About half of the time I will wake up in a dry bed and when I do I will have to pee really bad.
On those mornings I will usually just relax and enjoy the feeling of my full bladder relaxing and I enjoy the feeling of the warm pee surrounding me. Quite often that feeling leads me to masturbate.
How can I deal with the wet bed?

ANSWER: The first step is to waterproof the bed. Get a waterproof mattress cover. Bed Bath & Beyond has them in all of the standard mattress sizes. Get the one that fits the mattress like a condom and it closes up with a zipper. This protects the mettress on all sides, no matter what you do to it.
Now, get a large bath towel. Get one that will go all across the bed. Position it so that your hips lay right in the middle of it. It's best if you can tuck it in on both sides.
Target is selling nice, thick, fluffy towels that are five feet on each side. They are square. These are big enough to take care of a queen size mattress. This is now your bottom sheet.
You can now safely pee the bed without worrying about doing any damage. This will hold a LOT of pee. When you are all done, you just throw it in the washer and let it run. Once it is dry you can spread it out on the mattress and you are ready for another night of bedwetting.


QUESTION: My boy friend wants to piss in my mouth and have me drink it. How dangerous is this?

ANSWER: It depends on where he's been!
Swapping piss can be a lot of fun, and it shows your love for each other.
Realize that anything that he is contaminated with will be passed to you. Does he have the sniffles? If so, you can count on them being passed to you and you may not know it for a couple of days.
Has anybody ever fucked him in the ass? Or, pissed in his ass? If so, then he probably has caught what ever that guy has. Including AIDS.
If you think that in your own mind he is pristine and you want to go ahead, then get his dick as far into your mouth as you can. So, just like when he cums in your mouth, have the fluid as far into your mouth as you can. The theory is that your stomach acid comes up to the back of your mouth and will (hopefully) kill off all of the germs.
The taste of his piss will depend on what he has been eating or drinking. For example, if he's been drinking beer or other alcoholic beverages you will get a buzz from it. It he's been smoking pot you can expect to get some of that buzz from him.
But, sharing each others piss is a great way to share each other.
It is my theory (untested) that if two guys that are HIV-Negative start a relationship with each other and they never have sex outside of the relationship then everything that they do within the relationship is safe sex.
This brings the question, though of how much do you love the guy and how much do you value your life? If he is dying for some reason, are you willing to die with him?


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